"Conflict in relationship is not a sign of failure. It is inevitable, just as pain is inevitable in the body. Pain is not the problem; it is our relationship with pain that defines the quality of our connection. Are we willing to connect, despite the pain? Are we willing to let our hearts break together? Each instance of conflict is an opportunity. For misunderstandings to be brought into the light. For recognising the places where we have stopped listening to ourselves, and to each other....... A wound has cracked open, and wants some loving attention. Conflict is inviting us to growth, to know our triggers more clearly. To touch the parts of ourselves we have been pushing down, the thoughts we have been suppressing, the feelings we have been denying, the truth we have been running from...... Love is a risk, a challenge; a journey, never a destination. And love will destroy every single concept you have about 'love'.......... Conflict is inevitable, but if there is lov